Bring out your burlesque beauty

You may be aware I have been working with Blush Dance to put on a fabulous weekend to help women to discover their inner diva. Click here for details.

Blush Dance, owned by Becky Campey, is a fabulous company that shares so many of the principles of my business.  They are real champions for women and femininity, showing you how you can be fierce AND feminine.  They really are more than a dance class and the moves and attitudes they teach you can be incorporated into your everyday life.

As style and image are more than just the clothes you wear I asked Becky to share her tips on bringing out your burlesque beauty.

So enough from me, I'll hand you over to Becky...

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Our mission at Blush Dance is to make everyone see how fabulous they are, inside and out.  We help women concentrate on their best bits instead of worrying about their worst and burlesque is the perfect way to do this.  The most famous burlesque stars are fabulous women who know how to work what they've got.  Think of Dita Von Teese, Bettie Page and Millie Dollar, all these women have fabulous curves and dangerous smiles and know how to use them!  Use these five fabulous tips to help inspire your inner goddess to come out and shine.

1. The street is your cat walk.

Walk tall, with your shoulders back and head held high and as if your best tune is playing as you walk. Walking with purpose creates an air of calm confidence, practice it wherever you go - work, the gym, the shops, everywhere.  The more you practice the easier and more natural it will feel. We often feel we have to dash around to fit things in and get to places, but instead take your time, find your hip wiggle and you will always enter a room with purpose and a general air of confidence.

2.  Eye Contact

Locking eyes with a person is a natural connection and the brain registers it before any other response. It subliminally says I am present, un-intimidated and at ease with you. When performing it creates a compelling connection with your audience and this has the same affect in everyday life. It is a powerful tool, so use it when talking to your boss, your friends, a new business associate, a colleague or the love of your life.  It registers to others you are confident, equal and unapologetic you.

3.  Add your Sparkle

Have a bowl of fabulous accessories to hand; bracelets, hats, brooches, earrings. Adding a touch of glamour to your everyday can start as simply as accessorising. The more sparkles, the better to add the glam. It will make you feel a million dollars and reinforce the purposeful walk and eye contact perfectly.

4.  Less is More

Being confident isn't always about strutting everything you have straight away, often less can be more. When on stage, holding back the last bit of your costume, act or reveal will create curiosity and leave them wanting more. In work, play or your love life drop a little of your wisdom slowly, hold back slightly to create an subtle impact and leave others curious and wanting to know more about your ideas, opinions and you!

5.  Posture Perfect

Whether standing, sitting, driving or walking, having an awareness of how you hold your posture creates grace and poise. Sit on the edge of your chair, boost your car seat to sit upright, let your shoulders fall down your back and hold your inner corset with 30% effort. With your body in a calmly aligned state it will create a confident and graceful poise in your mind and the people around you.

For more of these fabulous tips and instruction on how to bring out your burlesque star book onto our Burlesque Performance Course.  We will teach you how to develop your burlesque character by giving her a name, an outfit and even a favourite drink!  This course is perfect to help build self confidence and make you feel beautiful inside and out.  

If you'd like to try out one of our burlesque classes, we have classes on Monday nights in Cheadle and Wednesday nights in Fallowfield at 7.30pm.  Classes are just £5.50, come down and give it a go!

View our timetable of fab fit feminine classes online.

Stay Fit, Feminine and Fabulous!

Becky X